How Does Parent's Fighting Affect Mental Children?

In family, the meaning is something natural. However, differences of opinion can cause differences in children. What happens at home can affect a child's health and mental development in the long run.

However, it is not only the relationship between children and adolescents that is important, how to solve this problem?

These are how Parent's Fighting Affect Mental Children,

1. Children exposed to the conflict have faster heart rates and stress hormone responses

In most problems, squabbling has little or no negative effect on the child. While when grateful and angry with each other, discussed Mama and Papa give each other "overcome silence".

British and international research conducted over several rounds through research at home and experimental research, research for six months, children exposed to conflict, have a faster heart rate, and stress hormone response.

Infants, children, and adolescents can change the signs of early brain development, sleep difficulties, difficulties, depression, impaired interactions, and other problems related to conflicts with dangerous or chronic ones.

Similar effects are also seen in children who are exposed to ongoing conflicts but are not intense when compared to children whose parents resolve conflicts.

2. Arguments before, during and after divorce causes more damage to the child

The impact of a fight on a child cannot always be as expected. For example, divorce is often considered to have very long-term adverse effects on many children.

However, in some cases, which are thought to be caused before, during, and after divorce cause more damage, than the divorce itself.

It is often assumed that genetics responds to the way children respond to conflict, and the child's environment is central to his mental health understanding, which supports responding from negotiations, depression, and psychosis.

However, the home environment and the care they receive can also be very significant. Genetic risk is the underlying mental health, which can also be aggravated by conflicting family life.

3. Children can argue with themselves or can argue with arguments

What does all this mean for parents? First of all, it is important to discuss. However, it is complicated to engage in conflicts with each other that are frequent, intense, and cannot be resolved, children can respond unfavorably.

Moreover, if the quarrel is denied the child, so the child denied himself or denied the quarrel. This negative effect can cause sleep problems and early brain development for children, overcoming problems in school, depression, academic problems.

This is not only against the life of the child itself but the research that shows the relationship that can be done from one generation to the next. This is a cycle that must be broken if there is a positive and happy child's life for the next generation, the next family.

4. From around 2 years of age for astute observers

However, several factors can reduce the damage caused. From the age of about two years, children are astute observers of their lives.

If children pay attention to quarrels, children can argue and understand the reasons for the conflict.

Based on their past experiences, children decide whether they think the conflict will be more frequent, potentially involve them, or even pose a risk to the family.

They may also be worried about the possibility of their relationship with their parents deteriorating.

5. Boys and girls who can respond to problems differently

Research shows that boys and girls may also respond differently, with girls at greater risk of experiencing emotional problems, and boys at greater risk of experiencing problems in behavior.

Supporting relationships between parents can also make a big difference for children in the short term, and it is better to strengthen them to form healthy relationships for themselves with others in the future.

Where children have supportive relationships with siblings, siblings, school friends, or other adults, such as teachers. This is important for the long-term healthy development of children.

6. Children will also get positive lessons when parents successfully resolve an argument

It is natural for Mama and Papa to feel worried about the impact of their argument on Little One. But it is natural to argue or sometimes disagree, and in fact, the child can also respond well when parents explain or resolve appropriately what the argument is.

When parents successfully resolve a fight, children get positive lessons that are important to help them control their emotions and their adult relationships later.

The importance of parents in understanding how their relationship can also affect children's development, make a life for healthy children and healthy families in the future.